• 👍Maximum Derek👍@discuss.tchncs.de
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    4 months ago

    I recently learned (in my mid-40s) that I’ve been figuring this out the hard way most of my life.

    I always diagram the sentence in my head, as in: The subject is fear, the object is Rush, so it’s ‘whom.’
    My wife has a simple grammar rule that if him/her works then it’s whom, if she/he fits better then it’s who.

    I feel like my primary school teachers did me dirty.

  • alexc@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I think it’s more technically correct as “of whom are you afraid” as you should not end a sentence with a preposition.

    Then again, I’m a software engineer so perhaps not.