• Gadg8eer
    link
    fedilink
    English
    -113 hours ago

    That’s not “a nightmare for autistic people”. He had every right to be angry about a famine and this was all just “submit to my authority” bullshit. I don’t care who you are descended from, that is not logical nor fair nor reasonable in any social setting. I literally would have just decked him in the face and stormed out because that’s the only scenario where OP is making it clear that authority does not equal privilege. Respect your employees.

    • @sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip
      link
      fedilink
      612 hours ago

      What I mean by nightmare for autistic people is that autistic people, while often excelling at tasks and activities that have firm, mechanical, logical rules, are also often totally bewildered by social interactions because, on their face, they don’t really seem to follow any black and white rules.

      Autists try to logic their way, consciously, through a challenging social interaction as if it were a game of chess, even though the rules are basically calvinball rules.

      My point is that this kind of catastrophic social interaction is more likely and more challenging for a neurodiverse than a neurotypical, not that the Israeli’s incitement was justifiable.

      literally would have just decked him in the face and stormed out because that’s the only scenario where OP is making it clear that authority does not equal privilege.

      Yep and that’s how you ruin your career and possibly go to jail, have fun paying off your student loans at a min wage job the rest of your life after everyone hears about the guy that freaked out over a friendly dinner and broke the funny popular guy’s orbital bone.

      • Gadg8eer
        link
        fedilink
        English
        -312 hours ago

        That’s how you are supposed to deal with that level of awfulness. If you idiots can’t fucking throw away your worthless fucking lives en-masse to fix this mess, how do you expect change to ever happen?

        • @sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip
          link
          fedilink
          312 hours ago

          … who is ‘you idiots?’

          Autistic people? Everyone who’s ever experienced a bigoted insult?

          … Can you actually explain your plan here?

          • Gadg8eer
            link
            fedilink
            English
            312 hours ago

            Oh, jeez, not like that, no. I am autistic, and I didn’t mean other autistic people. Let’s just say I’m angry at humans in general and leave it at that, I think I’d better get off Lemmy for a while.

            • @sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip
              link
              fedilink
              412 hours ago

              Hey, totally serious here:

              You got a bit overheated, realized it, and you’re taking a break.

              I totally get just becoming so angry at the hypocrisy of it all, and I genuinely just want to commend you for realizing when you got a bit hot headed.

              If only our allistic acquaintances had the same ability to admit when their emotions are driving their actions.

    • @crashfrog@sopuli.xyz
      link
      fedilink
      English
      -1212 hours ago

      He had every right to be angry about a famine

      A famine in 1845? Caused by Irish reliance on monocrop agriculture?

      Why would any living person in 2024 have a right to be “angry” about a joke that barely refers to it?

      • Gadg8eer
        link
        fedilink
        English
        7
        edit-2
        11 hours ago

        A famine in 1845 that was caused by…

        “As someone who lived 5 years in ireland and saw the history its absolutely fucking horrible. If you think about it its kinda ironic. Uk occupies a country, controls everything there and commits a genocide. Israel is occupying a country, controls everything there and commits a genocide. By the way as a neurotypical who has autistic family members and friends, in this case what happened is that the irish potato famine got normalized over time but the genocide in gaza is a current event. Also the israel one is political. Third thing is most neurotypicals are pussies, if you spend time with neurodivergent people you realize that a lot of things they say are funny as fuck, even if its a bit raw sometimes.”

        That was by Altoothbrush in this topic, if you didn’t see it.

        I’m not Irish, nor do have an issue with Israelis. This whole issue just reeks of “casual dismissiveness” and I’m autistic myself so this hurts deep.

        • @crashfrog@sopuli.xyz
          link
          fedilink
          English
          -1211 hours ago

          A famine in 1845 that was caused by…

          Monocrop agriculture, like I said. How else do you lose all your food to a single crop disease?

          Israel is occupying a country, controls everything there and commits a genocide.

          But… they aren’t? The Irish population declined by 1.5 million people in two years. The population of Arab Palestinians has monotonically increased since the formation of the State of Israel in 1948.

          in this case what happened is that the irish potato famine got normalized over time

          Can you explain what else you think is supposed to happen to history as it recedes into the past?

          Are we supposed to feel infinitely bad about the infinite past’s infinite array of horrors? Forever? Doesn’t the past ever get to just be the past? I don’t think you have to be “neurotypical” to understand why human beings have recency bias.

          • @sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip
            link
            fedilink
            8
            edit-2
            11 hours ago

            Ok since you are either ignorant or quite dense:

            The Irish were forced into monocrop agriculture by their Imperial Overlords, as colonial subjects extracting resources and establishing a very fragile and inequitable economic system for the Irish.

            The Famine was greatly exacerbated by capitalist agents of their Imperial Overlords exporting food from Ireland, which could have fed the Irish, but they were paid so little, their buying power could not compete with higher prices offered by exporting.

            Also, Israel is currently committing a genocide inasmuch as they have militarily invaded an area, bombed it into and its inhabitants into oblivion, killing far, far more civilian casualties than combatant, with multiple instances of designating safe areas for civilians to flee to and then bombing the fuck out of them weeks later.

            Oh, and they’re also causing a famine by not allowing food in, even drone striking and shooting up UN food convoys.

            Finally, some forms of racism become unacceptable in the current day because attention and scorn are brought by people who make the atrocities of the past known.

            You’re probably not gonna be able to get away with polite company hearing you refer to a black person as a n##g##r or an arab as a sand n##g##r or an asian person as a ching chong, even though you absolutely could not too many decades ago, and the reason that is the case is that social movements brought historical wrongs into present attention.

            That it is still acceptable to joke about irish potatoes is something that seems strange and hypocritical to an autistic person who is far more likely to see the arbitrary nature of social norms, is far more likely to try to establish consistent, inviolable rules, than to an allistic person to whom the rules of socialization are basically processed and determined subconsciously, without need for an analytic approach.

            • @crashfrog@sopuli.xyz
              link
              fedilink
              English
              -10
              edit-2
              10 hours ago

              Also, Israel is currently committing a genocide inasmuch as they have militarily invaded an area, bombed it into and its inhabitants into oblivion, killing far, far more civilian casualties than combatant, with multiple instances of designating safe areas for civilians to flee to and then bombing the fuck out of them weeks later.

              But that’s not genocide. That’s warfare, in an urban environment, prosecuted (as military observers all agree) with the maximum possible degree of protection for the civilian population. That’s what it looks like!

              Israelis in Gaza continue to suffer, bleed, and die on behalf of Gazans, as a result of taking greater risks than they need to in order to avoid extreme civilian harm.

              Oh, and they’re also causing a famine by not allowing food in

              But that’s false. Not only are they allowing food in, they’ve increased food aid since Oct 11, the start of the operation in Gaza. 3500 calories per person per day - that’s more calories per person than in Luxembourg.

              How could it be the case that Israel is both feeding Palestinians and “genociding” them?

              • @sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip
                link
                fedilink
                510 hours ago

                That’s warfare, in an urban environment, prosecuted (as military observers all agree) with the maximum possible degree of protection for the civilian population

                Other than the IPCC and ICJ and basically the entire world and even members of the Biden admin so disgusted by whats going on that they resigned in protest, sure!

                We all know the maximally safe thing to do is to carpet bomb the designated safe zone civillians were instructed to flee to.

                We all know the best way to get your hostages back is to blow up buildings they might be in with a fucking tank cannon at point blank, because the hannibal doctrine of killing hostages that are too difficult to extract is more expedient.

                How could it be the case that Israel is both feeding Palestinians and “genociding” them?

                It isn’t. You believe a lie. Everyone other than Israel themselves has been claiming and reporting on Israel is saying they are allowing food in when they actually are not.

                Anyway, you’re very obviously an idiot, troll, hasbarah clown, or some combination of those.

                It’s been fun, toodles.

                • @crashfrog@sopuli.xyz
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  -2
                  edit-2
                  10 hours ago

                  Other than the IPCC and ICJ and basically the entire world and even members of the Biden admin so disgusted by whats going on that they resigned in protest, sure!

                  When would they have previously seen social media from intense urban warfare? Soldiers in the second Iraq war didn’t have phones.

                  But simply being shocked by the reality of warfare is not evidence of war crimes. It’s evidence that war is shocking.

                  We all know the best way to get your hostages back is to blow up buildings they might be in with a fucking tank cannon at point blank, because the hannibal doctrine of killing hostages that are too difficult to extract is more expedient

                  That’s not an IDF doctrine, though. The Hannibal doctrine is merely to prevent, if possible, the enemies of Israel from taking hostages. How does that differ from any other nation? The US doesn’t allow hostage-taking, either. Neither do they where you live.

                  Everyone_ other than Israel themselves has been claiming and reporting on Israel is _saying_ they are allowing food in when they _actually are not._

                  No they haven’t. How can it be a lie? Everyone can see the food going in, the warehouses filling up, the chow lines distributing it to Gazans.