If you've ever spent any time online, you might have heard how TOXIC the Arch Linux community is. You might even have been cyberbullied for using Ubuntu by a...
I also want to see how many downvotes i am going to get
I’ve been avoiding linux groups in general for the last 20 years because every time I dip in (slashdot, digg, reddit) I wind up asking a legitimate question I get hammered by someone who thinks they are better than everyone else. My last instance was trying to set options in grub or from the console to change the default CLI resolution – the post was taken over by a mod who didn’t even seem to understand what I was asking, and spent his time answering every post by berating me for having the gall for connecting a monitor to a server, because “a real server would never have any kind of display device connected to it.” I finally found out why I wasn’t getting any replies from the people that had tried to help, someone told me later the mod must have shadow-banned me from the group. That person had logged in under their mod account and noticed all my unanswered replies in the post which they hadn’t been able to see under a regular account.
The linux groups here on Lemmy are my first positive experience with any linux groups, and I really hope it stays that way.
Ok but that reddit mod (it was /r/Linux right ? ) was eventually booted for being an utter arse and I’m 98% sure he didnt run Arch (he had a foss purism thing going and iirc was on debian)
I mean toxicity at reddit is why most of us are now on lemmy right ?
Yes that particular mod was on reddit, but it’s been so many years ago that I have no idea who it was. This was probably within a year of the migration from Digg so it’s been awhile. I just hadn’t found any need to try again after seeing the same asinine entitlement on all three sites.
I’m currently using Arch and doing the same thing. I learned more than a decade ago not to even bother with asking questions to the community at large. Bunch of self righteous dicks they are.
Any thoughts on which distro has the friendliest community?
I looked this up a few months ago when I was changing from Fedora to OpenSUSE.
OpenSUSE itself was mentioned as having a friendly community, which I thought was great since I was switching to it anyway.
But my first experience asking for help on their official forums was ehhh—I asked about some guidance I’d read in the official docs (basically a blurb that said FYI, you can do this another way), and was told, condescendingly, that “no one does it that way.”
That’s fine—the sarcastic or condescending tone I mean—maybe it’s a European or a German thing that’s rubbed off on its users.
The distro itself it great though. I’ve been able to solve most other issues myself.
EndeavourOS, Mint, Fedora. I was a part of EnOS forums for a year, these people are saints. Just say hello or make a help request and five different people will greet you.
Same experience, but on the ubuntu forums more than a decade ago. Those people who can’t get recognition IRL seek it online. It doesn’t help that they socially awkward due to being ostracized IRL. So they have to spend a lot of time alone teaching themselves stuff / the hard way: through experience and by being belittled by other people who are a few years down the same experience.
They are just like Catholics: I had to suffer, so you do too. The lack of physical presence dehumanizes the interlocutor and makes it easier to be a dick and a compounding factor is one cannot punch somebody through a screen for being a twat.
The less fortunate discriminating against the even less fortunate because for once they have power. It’s very human and as many things human, very detrimental.
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I’ve been avoiding linux groups in general for the last 20 years because every time I dip in (slashdot, digg, reddit) I wind up asking a legitimate question I get hammered by someone who thinks they are better than everyone else. My last instance was trying to set options in grub or from the console to change the default CLI resolution – the post was taken over by a mod who didn’t even seem to understand what I was asking, and spent his time answering every post by berating me for having the gall for connecting a monitor to a server, because “a real server would never have any kind of display device connected to it.” I finally found out why I wasn’t getting any replies from the people that had tried to help, someone told me later the mod must have shadow-banned me from the group. That person had logged in under their mod account and noticed all my unanswered replies in the post which they hadn’t been able to see under a regular account.
The linux groups here on Lemmy are my first positive experience with any linux groups, and I really hope it stays that way.
Ok but that reddit mod (it was /r/Linux right ? ) was eventually booted for being an utter arse and I’m 98% sure he didnt run Arch (he had a foss purism thing going and iirc was on debian)
I mean toxicity at reddit is why most of us are now on lemmy right ?
Yes that particular mod was on reddit, but it’s been so many years ago that I have no idea who it was. This was probably within a year of the migration from Digg so it’s been awhile. I just hadn’t found any need to try again after seeing the same asinine entitlement on all three sites.
I’m currently using Arch and doing the same thing. I learned more than a decade ago not to even bother with asking questions to the community at large. Bunch of self righteous dicks they are.
you seem nice though /s
👋 Hi!
What are the arch forums?
https://bbs.archlinux.org/
Any thoughts on which distro has the friendliest community?
I looked this up a few months ago when I was changing from Fedora to OpenSUSE.
OpenSUSE itself was mentioned as having a friendly community, which I thought was great since I was switching to it anyway.
But my first experience asking for help on their official forums was ehhh—I asked about some guidance I’d read in the official docs (basically a blurb that said FYI, you can do this another way), and was told, condescendingly, that “no one does it that way.”
That’s fine—the sarcastic or condescending tone I mean—maybe it’s a European or a German thing that’s rubbed off on its users.
The distro itself it great though. I’ve been able to solve most other issues myself.
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EndeavourOS, Mint, Fedora. I was a part of EnOS forums for a year, these people are saints. Just say hello or make a help request and five different people will greet you.
I think that’s the successor to Antergos, if so that makes sense!
Ubuntu or mint (which is just Ubuntu tbh) would be my guess.
Same experience, but on the ubuntu forums more than a decade ago. Those people who can’t get recognition IRL seek it online. It doesn’t help that they socially awkward due to being ostracized IRL. So they have to spend a lot of time alone teaching themselves stuff / the hard way: through experience and by being belittled by other people who are a few years down the same experience.
They are just like Catholics: I had to suffer, so you do too. The lack of physical presence dehumanizes the interlocutor and makes it easier to be a dick and a compounding factor is one cannot punch somebody through a screen for being a twat.
The less fortunate discriminating against the even less fortunate because for once they have power. It’s very human and as many things human, very detrimental.