A Illustration of the unrealistic standards that society sets for men

      • @kwekkie@lemmy.world
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        -410 months ago

        I can’t, I was banned by the fascists for saying trans men are men. So I had to come here unfortunately.

        • @Globulart@lemmy.world
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          410 months ago

          You were banned from all of reddit for having the prevailing opinion when it comes to trans men? Doubt.

          It still doesn’t affect the idiocy of your original post. Maybe check before calling everyone bigots eh? They might just have information you don’t. :) x

          • @kwekkie@lemmy.world
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            -510 months ago

            No, when it comes to “trans women”. Someone needing to have “information” to know someones gender is the whole point. They’re trying to say you have to ignore your own eyes and intelligence and believe some made up story instead.

            • @Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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              310 months ago

              So you are saying you must constantly remind yourself and everyone you are talking to of someone’s genitals at birth in every conversation you have constantly or else what - you’ll forget?

              Are you a goldfish?

              People aren’t asking you to ignore your eyes dude. They are asking you to allow people space to use their mental tools so they can more easily get through their day. They are legit telling their friends and the people they are around most what way to treat them will make them happiest to make them the most comfortable to be themselves. When you present yourself as a obstacle to someone else’s joy and/or wellbeing yeah, people treat you like an ass. You are not the arbiter of truth here. People know that trans women were born phenotypicly male. They are just able to prioritize more than “monkey see, monkey speak”.

              • @kwekkie@lemmy.world
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                10 months ago

                The case in point here is a photo. I have no idea about their genitals, nor what they “identify as”. I see a woman, clear as day. I’m not talking to them, so “what they want me to call them” is not an issue.

                • @WaxedWookie@lemmy.world
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                  10 months ago

                  So is Buck Angel a man or a woman?

                  Are you deluded enough to call Buck Angel a woman too?

                  I’ll give you some credit for choosing to use gender neutral pronouns rather than misgendering Page - even if it would have undermined your point to use gendered pronouns.

                • @Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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                  110 months ago

                  So you are afraid of doing any mental work. Not surprised. Also this particular person, Elliot Page, is one of the most famous trans men out there and even if he weren’t famous you are grandstanding about how you want to call trans people whatever you feel like.

                  When you are nasty behind someone’s back it’s still you showing off how much of a mean killjoy you are practicing up to be to somebody’s face someday and that you are proud of being a mean ass killjoy. Then you get upset because ta da - people treat you like a mean killjoy. How unpredictable!

            • @Globulart@lemmy.world
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              10 months ago

              What point do you think you’re making mate…?

              Are you actually gonna go with the idea that knowing information is a bad thing and we should all work off instinct and assumptions instead?

              See any issue with that idea? Might it lead to ignorant comments like yours do you think?

              • @kwekkie@lemmy.world
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                -210 months ago

                See any issue with your idea that you should let “what people tell you” override your own intelligence? Must not have too much of it if you are in favor of that.

                • @Globulart@lemmy.world
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                  310 months ago

                  I don’t see that point anywhere mate. I do enjoy the irony in your last sentence though, you’re so intelligent that you incorrectly accused a group of people of misgendering someone.

                  Anyway this clearly leads nowhere good, just try and have a think about it buddy :) x

                  • @kwekkie@lemmy.world
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                    -210 months ago

                    I do enjoy the irony of you telling me to “think about it”, while you like to simply parrot third-party statements instead of thinking about anything.