I want to have a nice sexual surprise for my partner. What would you do/have done that works?

(Not going to break up with them, just getting ahead of that train.)

  • Match!!English
    5•1 year ago

    talk to them about things they like and things you like and see what overlaps (if you haven’t done this I will presume you’re heterosexual)

    then, prep ahead of time to do one of those things at a time when you think it’s likely your partner will be receptive to it (not after a long day of work)

    hint a little about it ahead of time and use that to judge whether they are in fact probably up for it

    bring them to the bedroom or other fuck spot and explicitly ask if they’re interested. if they are not, make it clear that it’s okay (and mentally prepare yourself for it to be okay)