• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    For which party?

    Now, I’ve never taken it in the ass unless you count colonoscopy and other medical invasions. But I’ve fucked partners in the ass, though only women. Sorry, I’m hetero, so there’s limits to my willingness to do it for science lol.

    However, I love gay dudes. Always have, and you might be amazed at how willing those guys are to talk about such things to a token straight.

    The real answer is that it varies. People that like anal don’t all like the same things.

    I would say, on average, that most people don’t want/need/enjoy the extra texture for anal. You can’t really feel the ribs on your dick anyway, no matter what you’re putting it in. At least that’s what I’ve been told by other guys, and I know I can’t.

    With vaginal, women can usually feel the difference, and there’s the usual “it depends on the person” as to whether or not it’s enjoyed. But anally, the extra friction can be intense supposedly. That isn’t always wanted, and can turn a nice anal session into a failed anal session.

    Back in our younger days, when my best friend/roomie would bring guys home, the preference was definitely for standard condoms. One dude did bring his own ribbed though. Asked if it was going to be a three-way too, but that’s another story lol.

    And that’s generally the word I have from gay guys. It’s not the norm, but you’ll run into some dedicated bottoms that prefer condoms with texture. That’s local/regional though, it could be different elsewhere.

    I do know that the condom box at one of the clubs I bounced at would run out of pretty much everything else before the ribbed. Eventually, they stocked magnums instead. Those sold like crazy. The free condoms at the bar were all whatever got donated, and it was always just grab and go, so I never noticed any patterns there

    It’s one of those things you’d have to try to know whether or not it was worth trying lol.

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      that’s really funny. I had an FWB (let’s say Katie) that I was still friends with but not sleeping with because she had started dating somebody. she’d recently broken up with him, and her closest girl friend got absolutely sloshed and called me from Katie’s phone asking if she could watch us fuck.

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          lol my friend was sober, she took the phone away and told me to go ahead and come over. the one who wanted to watch had passed out on the couch by then, so we went to the bedroom.