Never had it, probably never will. So I’m curious.

(If the question isn’t allowed, which I don’t think is, for some reason I’ll delete the post)

Thank you.

  • Sockenklaus@sh.itjust.works
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    8 hours ago

    Thanks for your explanation!

    Today, I read about spontaneous and responsive desire (I learned something new :)). Spontaneous desire means that you get aroused mentally first, and then your body responds. Responsive desire means that you need to get into the activity first, and only then do you become mentally aroused.

    Is this the same thing?

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      6 hours ago

      Yeah, absolutely! Like, we both can get physically aroused and just not care to do anything about it. Then the physical arousal just goes away.

      But once we start doing stuff, even if we don’t begin aroused, we both get insanely physically and mentally aroused. Then it’s basically anything-goes-let’s-get-WEIRD-about-it-gross-things-are-now-hot, leaving both of our bodies wrecked for days. I usually have issues walking for a few days. Maybe that’s why we don’t do it super often.

      That reminds me, it’s been a while. I should pencil in a sesh. Got a new Bad Dragon months ago that we’ve only used once lawl