I have personalities with subtle differences depending on the group I’m with in person.

• My spouse - my truest self, very little to hide and keep to myself.
• Immediate family - not very personal. My family has never been very openly affectionate growing up.
• Bandmates - a little more assertive and leader-like.
• Workmates and strangers - the identity I mostly go with in public. More introverted, less talkative, and very guarded.