The last time I was sitting on his face I came pretty good, so I’ve decided to return the favor. Or at least give him a chance. Like I said last time, I just love to mess with him and see what happens if I take one or two things out of the equation. So I pulled Lovense and his lingerie from the drawer and told Luke that he’s allowed to cum … if he can do it like a proper slut, just by prostate massager up his ass 😈
I would love to include more anal plays in our sessions and buttplugs and prostate massagers are less overwhelming than some bigger toys, so I am quite a fan of them. I honestly wanted to make him cum, but I really wanted to shift his focus a little bit away from his penis. So, I just decided to keep him locked. Also, now it wasn’t up to me if he cum or not 🤭I mean, gave him permission. He just needs to figure out, how to make his body works. Or maybe he wasn’t so horny after all?
To give him a better chance I gently stroked his caged clit. Unfortunately, there wasn’t much he could feel through the bars, apart from a little tickling. Well, sometimes it’s all he needs. But this time it just wasn’t enough 😈 I could see, he was just a hair away the whole time. I was expecting him to blast my hand at any time … but he didn’t.
Now his brain is melted like ice cream on a hot day. But on the brighter side, I had the opportunity and show my character. No, I don’t mean mercy 😄 I mean keeping my word. He couldn’t cum like my dolled up anal slut, so he didn’t cum at all. Keeping a word is also important, right? 😇
Seriously though, I don’t think I’ve seen him this desperate, but it ain’t my fault he couldn’t cum. The prostate massager is certainly doing something. This isn’t the first time he failed with a toy up his butt. Which, and this might come as a shocker I know, I am quite ok with 🤭 I mean, I would love to see him cum just from vibrating his ass, but it doesn’t happen at least I know why the toy is called Edge 😄
It’s actually not easy at all to cum from just anal stimulation unless he is actively working towards it as a goal. You can achieve a lot of the same sensations as actually cumming, which can be both amazing and frustrating at the same time(loosely as you describe), but to get a physical result takes a bit of retraining your bodies stimuli response. It took me the better part of a year before I was able to for the first time.
From a control and denial standpoint this is perfectly fine thing to play with, but if it’s something that you’re setting as a legitimate expectation just be sure that you understand this. It’s not going to happen on command likely the first few times.
Thank you for your experience. I was reading about it and the process seems to be vastly different for everybody, but familiarizing with one’s own body seems to be a common requirement 😄 And sadly, a lot of people never manage to achieve that. I am considering giving him a set of toys to practice alone, to give him a better chance to figure out what pushes his buttons.
Yes, a large part of it is simply understanding and being in tune with your body. There’s certainly more to it though. Giving him toys to practice will definitely be a good way to move towards that if it’s a goal, but I would simply say to exercise caution in trying to explicitly force it through your scenes and overarching control dynamics until he’s ready and capable or else it’s just setting the stage for failure and frustration. That is unless putting him in a failing position is your goal in the first place of course.