Every website or community I’ve found is dominated by furry, incest, or massive-genital fetish comics. Even the categories filters have no vanilla options. No judgement for the people who like or make these, but where can I find something more realistic and wholesome? Closest I’ve found is ohjoysextoy, but they don’t have more than a few examples.
There are a lot of wholesome adult manga on that site. It’s also properly licensed.
Maybe !ecchi@lemmynsfw.com?
Ecchi is characterized by light, playful sexual themes and imagery.
Source: !ecchi@lemmynsfw.com’s sidebar.
!comicsnsfw@lemmynsfw.com tries to satisfy this niche as well. Sometimes some weird stuff comes through though, but I think the community is more aimed at story vs just outright hentai.
The Rock Cocks is a pretty good wholesome NSFW comic.
Slipshine also has a very big library of erotic comics - it’s a pay site, but maybe worth subbing for a month to download a mess of comics.
XXXenophile is a good collection of comics with (mostly) vanilla-friendly sci-fi/fantasy stories.