“In good faith”
There’s no such thing in that situation. If you’re going to check a minor’s “gender”, you’re either already out for blood, trying to out a person you think is trans; or you’re an outright molester. Either way that’s just degenerate behavior.
OK, the group and posters here should NOT be censored out. They’re posting on a public forum (Facebook), and don’t deserve an assumption of privacy for it.
We need to call these people out.
Hellberta lives up to its nic again. :/
I’m confused by some of the terminology and abbreviations. Is this a group of pedophiles celebrating that they can now touch children due to an anti-trans bill?
Yes. MAP stands for Minor Attracted Person. It’s a term used by Pedophiles to self describe.
Yes, MAP is “minor attracted person”. A self given name for pedos.
And yes, they’re celebrating their pedophile breathern in office, aka the anti trans movement, passing laws that make molestation legal in several cases.
I feel like this is some kind of clever reverse psychology.
Like, UCP supporters are too dumb to criticize their party, so they won’t realize that their policies are actually bad for children unless their enemy supports the same party whole-heartedly. Maybe some of them will actually pay attention.
Or maybe I’m being too optimistic.
So, what’s the name of this group so I can go and report these sick pedo fucks?
How is this kind of group even allowed on facebook? Can we report this shit?
i think it might be sacrasm (“that’s awesome…”)
Not a dragqueen or trans… just the hard right enabling what they accuse others of doing. Every accusation is projection with those people.
“hard right”
I see your double entendre there…
Do I understand correctly that you’re saying these people are from a pro-child abuse Facebook group? Can you explain what MAPS are? I’m too scared to look it up myself in case it’s a more loaded term than I realize.
It seems like some of the users are celebrating, but I think I’m gonna need a lot more context to understand what kind of fuckery is happening here.
MAPs are pedos who don’t like being called pedos. It stands for “minor attracted person”.
Chronically online pedos invented this term because they want pedophilia to be recognized as a sexuality or a type of neurodivergence so that it would be protected under the same laws as other sexualities and/or mental disorders.
In other words it’s their attempt to claim they have no choice but to engage in child abuse. Anyone who insists on using the term MAP is probably also a pedo.
It’s so frustrating to me, because I feel there is a need to discuss the mental disorder of attraction to minors versus the action of doing it. But here we have a group using the term MAP while also sharing new loopholes to legally abuse children.
Not that I believe anything related to the term MAP was ever anything other than in bad faith.
To be fair being attracted to minors IS a mental illness as those people never chose it and can hardly do much about it, except for taking therapy like you do with other mental illnesses.
Likewise, being about who they are attracted to and again being something they did not choose, it also IS a sexuality.
More than anything else it is a curse. Imagine having to live with an attraction to people you can’t hope of actually dating, imagine having no way to love somebody you’re attracted to without harming them.
Now those people I have seen in the “MAP” space have a tendency to actually favour acting on their urges one way or another which is horrible, so I have no problem with your last paragraph. What I do not like is the other two, framing pedos as wicked people.
There is a stigma on pedophilia which is justified but also framed very poorly. The behaviour should rightfully be stigmatised, but the people should be treated for what the are: mentally sick and in need of help.
The stigma on the people that is well exemplified in your second paragraph is exactly what makes it hard for morally sound pedophiles to go and seek help.
“To be fair” to “morally sound” pedos?
Everything I said is about pedos that insist on being called MAPs. Calling them pedos doesn’t inherently frame them as wicked people. A pedo can only get help if they first recognize they’re a pedo.
They definitely need therapy for their mental illness. The problem is when they claim it’s a sexuality, neurodivergence or a disability, to try to normalize the condition/behavior or feel like a victim. Kids are victims, pedos are mentally ill.
Conflating mental illness with sexuality is wrong. Pedophilia is not a sexuality. Some pedos may be “morally sound” if they are filled with disgust at their thoughts, never act on them and instead make every effort to change. Sexuality is something you can’t change and isn’t inherently abusive.
For example, beastiality is abusive. It’s a mental illness that can be helped through therapy. Sexualities don’t need to be helped, and attempting to “fix” someone’s sexuality in therapy would be abuse.
Well those are your definitions, and of course under them I am wrong and you are right. But I don’t think they are correct.
Would you be able to find a definition of “sexuality” or “sexual orientation” that says it’s not inherently abusive? I’ll wait but I don’t think you will.
You can’t control who you are attracted to, and to be fair I think saying otherwise would be rather reactionary.
If you are attracted to people or things who can consent to your intimacy - or even to objects - that’s great. If you are attracted to kids or animals it’s not great at all. But they are all sexual orientations, and you don’t get to decide through legality which ones are not.
I don’t disagree with you on the disgust for pedo behaviour and the attempts of tbe “MAPs” to make it acceptable. I disagree with the stigma on those who have that attraction BECAUSE of the attraction itself rather than their actions.
Legality has nothing to do with it. Abuse is abuse whether or not it’s legal.
And you don’t need that to be explicitly excluded from the formal definition of sexuality for it to be obvious. Asking for a definition mentioning that is like asking for a definition of strawberries that explicitly mentions they’re not cyanide.
If sexualities included mental illnesses and abusive behaviors, we would treat them as such. Putting pedophilia and beastiality in the same category as normal sexualities is not only wrong, it’s harmful and disparaging to LGBTQ+.
You need it in the definition if you want to claim it as such. If cyanide strawberries were found in nature they would be part of the definition of a strawberry, and claiming otherwise would be silly.
Generally speaking what may seem obvious to you may very well not be. I could claim that donkeys are fish, and should you complain that nowhere is said that, I would reply “that’s because it’s obvious”. Not the best of arguments.
If sexual orientation is the classification of what you are attracted to then men, women, everything in between, kids, horses and warplanes are a - semantically - “valid” sexual orientation.
As for harming LGBTQ+ I disagree with that. Whenever someone says “I don’t care who or how you fuck” they generally add “as long as they are consenting adults” - clearly it’s not that obvious.
With this said I think I did my best to make my case and I do not think I can do more if this is not enough, so I will disengage from further discussion.
The core issue in your argument is being unable to define pedophilia as either a sexuality or a mental disorder.
Either pedophilia is an inherent part of a persons sexual identity that is uncontrollable and unable to be changed, or it is a disorder that requires treatment which can lead to beneficial outcomes for the individual.
It cannot be both.
That is a fair objection, and I don’t know why you got downvoted - here is my upvote for what that matters.
First of all I would argue that the difference between a “quirk” and a mental illness is whether it messes with your life, and pedophilia very much does - in that sense a sexuality can be a mental illness if it interferes with your mental wellbeing.
Secondarily would say that whether pedophilia can be “cured” through therapy - making it a mental illness in your definition - or it can only be mitigated, is something that therapists know and I don’t.
Regardless, it makes no difference towards the point I was trying to make: people who suffer from it should not be stigmatised because of it, as it makes it harder and scarier for them to seek help.
First of all I would argue that the difference between a “quirk” and a mental illness is whether it messes with your life, and pedophilia very much does - in that sense a sexuality can be a mental illness if it interferes with your mental wellbeing.
Being gay often messes with ones life and mental health. Is homosexuality a mental illness?
Secondarily would say that whether pedophilia can be “cured” through therapy - making it a mental illness in your definition - or it can only be mitigated, is something that therapists know and I don’t.
There is treatment, ranging from Drug to Behavioral therapies, and from what I can find they are pretty effective.
My “definition” does not involve “curing” anything. I said treatment can lead to positive outcomes, not that it will. Plenty of known mental illness’ and disorders have terrible outcomes with or without treatment.
The point is pedophilia is either a sexuality or a disorder and it cannot exist as both.
Regardless, it makes no difference towards the point I was trying to make: people who suffer from it should not be stigmatised because of it, as it makes it harder and scarier for them to seek help
If what you are trying to say is “Pedophilia should be de-stigmatized in order to see more people seek help and have better outcomes.” then simply say that.
Pedophiles need help before they hurt someone. Accepting Pedophiles for being Pedophiles and normalizing the behavior in anyway is not the way to go about it because it is not normal behavior.
It is not my responsibility to accept them for who they are as a prerequisite to them seeking help.
I do not care how “hard” or “scary” it is to seek help in the current climate. It is their responsibility, and only their responsibility, to deal with their issues before something bad happens.
Oh great, another NAMBL or whatever the fuck it was called. Thank you for the detailed response, I’m gonna go wash my eyeballs now.
I can’t speak to the broader context here but MAP stands for Minor Attracted Person. They like to call themselves that.
Ew. Thanks. :(
I’ve had to live with the knowledge and now you do too. 😐
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