I’m a man. Only ever dated, been attracted to women. Recently I met this guy and I’m having weird feelings. I can’t quite tell if I’m attracted to him as a person or just like the way he treats me; nonetheless something makes me want to treat him differently than any other guys - the way I would a girl I suppose. My friends say I might be attracted to femininity in general regardless of gender and that’s why I feel this way, and the reason why it hasn’t surfaced until now is because I haven’t yet met a guy to tick those boxes. Wondering if anyone has been through something similar.
Labels can be useful tool for people, for some creating more labels with finer granularity is useful, for me I’ve found it’s just better to say “ I like what I like” if you want to define it by a certain set of characteristics then do so, but otherwise don’t sweat it.