Imagine suddenly you no longer exist, poof, from one day to the next there is no more you.

What if you knew that this day would come in a month?
What if it wasn’t for another year?
Or in 5 years?

Would you spend your remaining time differently than you do now?
If so, why aren’t you already doing it?

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    12 hours ago

    If I had one year left without slowly feeling worse because of some sickness I think I would just continue what I’m doing already but with an extreme deadline.

    • make sure I make the best with my family
    • finish my dissertation, a year is doable
    • organize my archival/datahoarding material to be accessible to family and backed up
    • make my will very clear
    • maybe the biggest change I would make would be to divorce my partner so I can max out my credit cards traveling with them to see family and friends in three countries.
    • maybe try to take more seriously meditation, an hour a day
    • I’m not sure I would want to do anything that could hurt my family, their opinion of me, or separate me from them during that year.

    Five years is such a significant amount of time I really don’t know if that could change anything. The deadlines would feel so far away.

    A month would feel crazy fast. This might cause me to make more radical changes.