FundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zone to me_irl@lemmy.world · 6 months agome_irllemmy.worldimagemessage-square10linkfedilinkarrow-up1419arrow-down17file-text
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minus-squareOpticalMoose@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up16·6 months agoSo much better than when I might have said something dumb and I’m staring at that unread message notification.
minus-squareFundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·edit-26 months agoAh I hate that. TFW I wake up to like 30 inbox messages after knowing I said something controversial. (With me it’s usually when I posted something about advancing disability rights). And I just don’t have the mental energy to check it out, so I mark all as read and pretend nothing happened lol.
minus-squareproudblond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·6 months agoHonestly that’s a great mental health strategy!
minus-squareFundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·6 months agoAvoidance works pretty well for a lot of things. There’s a reason humans have evolved these behaviours.
So much better than when I might have said something dumb and I’m staring at that unread message notification.
Ah I hate that. TFW I wake up to like 30 inbox messages after knowing I said something controversial.
(With me it’s usually when I posted something about advancing disability rights).
And I just don’t have the mental energy to check it out, so I mark all as read and pretend nothing happened lol.
Honestly that’s a great mental health strategy!
Avoidance works pretty well for a lot of things. There’s a reason humans have evolved these behaviours.