Gggg

  • dezmd@lemmy.world
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    13 days ago

    Yes, you’re the asshole.

    Stop jerkin off to people you know by creeping on their social media, it’s mentally unhealthy, it shows your lack of empathy in your relationship, it shows a lack of self control, it shows a lack of respect for the people you creep on, and it’s unethical to do it without those people’s permission.

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      13 days ago

      Counter question: is it unethical to jerk off to celebrities because it’s unethical to do it without those people’s permission?

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      13 days ago

      Counterpoint: there’s actually enough people that are completely fine with this, can just see the other comments. Your viewpoint is actually completely valid, but that’s just it, it’s your viewpoint. You consider it behavior of an asshole, but others don’t. Sometimes it’s just necessary to find the people that agree with you instead of changing your true self to please other people, that don’t agree with you.

      I’m coming from a situation where I currently have sexual relationships with 3 women, and everyone knows everything and feels good about the situation. There’s actually remarkable flexibility what people think is “asshole behavior”.