• Acamon@lemmy.world
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      11 days ago

      Yeah, I caused myself a lot of misery by trying to follow the “eat the frog first” strategy, and get the big important stuff out the way before the easy / less critical things. Just led to me wasting days not doing the big thing, and all the little things were snowballing into much larger problems.

      Now I go with “put the frog on your plate” - I tell myself honestly that the important task should be top of my list, and then proceed to avoid it by doing all the other shit. Sure, I have to deal with the problems of leaving something important til the last minute (and they are numerous) but at least everything else isn’t also on fire.

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        11 days ago

        What about this: do one small thing, then do one part of the big thing, then repeat until the big thing is done.

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          11 days ago

          in general the only way to do big things is to carve the frog into smaller pieces

          • Lightfire228
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            11 days ago

            The problem is not how to carve the frog into smaller bits

            The problem is, how do i get my mind to stop looking at the entire frog

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              11 days ago

              carve the frog, put one piece on your plate and the others in the fridge