Image description: 4 panel comic titled If Trans People Said the Things Cis People Tell Them.

Panel one has an androgynous individual talking to a woman. The androgynous individual, “To me, you are 100% a girl, you know?” The woman has a look of confusion and disgust and responds with, “Wow, thanks.”

Panel two has the same androgynous individual speaking with a man. The androgynous individual is saying, “It’s so incredibly you look just like an actual boy!” The man is rubbing the back of his head in nervous confusion and says, “Yeah, I… am one?”

Panel three has the androgynous individual speaking with someone of ambiguous gender. The androgynous individual says, “I would never have guessed you were cis! Congratulations!” The other person is looking at them with an expression of confusion and concern.

Panel four has the androgynous individual speaking to a man. The androgynous individual says, “I think you are so brave for being who you are.” The man is frowning at them.

The comic is credited to @assignedmale on Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr and SophieLabelledraws on YouTube. Their merch is at assignedmale.etsy.com and Pateron is at patreon.com/sophielabelle

  • toasteecup@lemmy.worldEnglish
    4·
    1 year ago

    Let’s set aside the transphobia call out for a moment, cause that’s a slap in my face and I do t think it’s what you’re intending.

    My intention by saying brave is this.

    If you are what your body is expressed as, then life is fairly smooth sailing.

    But if you aren’t, first you have to identify that which can be a difficult process. After identification of your gender, next you have to take a step and tell someone. That actually of speaking is bravery to me because admitting something like that to a parent or a loved one is difficult.

    “Mom dad. I’m a boy or girl or gay or bi or Jew or muslim or atheist.”

    No matter what the I am is and no matter how accepting your parent is, if it’s different from their experiences you have to contend with fear of disappointing them, of them rejecting it and not accepting you as you. It doesn’t matter if it’s trans gay bi or religious. It’s different and they are supposed to be your family.

    Telling some of the closest people ‘im different from you’ takes chutzpah.

    You’re welcome to call me transphobic all you want but I’ll applaude someone who took those steps and I’ll tell you to fuck off for insulting me trying to support you.

    As for calling me a coward for not fighting transphobia, you’re welcome to shut the fuck up. I’m a Jew. Born and proud. If I don’t stand up for you every way I can think of then I could not possibly ask you to stand for me when the Nazis come hunting me down.

    Maybe you didn’t intend it that way, but for conversation sake, try asking first.