• ANGRY_MAPLE@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      I don’t know about this commenter, but don’t forget that everyone is different.

      Hypothetically, you might be good having kids in you thirties, but one or both of them might have a condition or disability that gets worse with time.

      I know people in their early 20s with bad arthritis, and a lot of people want to be able to chase after and run around with their kids. Sometimes chronic pain/illness can remove that option.

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        1 year ago

        Oh for sure, I dont think everyone should or can be parents. Im just saying its not necessarily a death knell for parenthood in that age range