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The original was posted on /r/extremelyinfuriating by /u/Atlas112707 on 2024-01-16 05:35:59+00:00.
So when I was 15 (ftm) my mother(45) was dating this man (52) let’s call him jack sexually assaulted me while me and him were alone one night. He had gotten me extremely high (had me taking blinkers every few minutes) and took advantage of me, while he was doing it he claimed it was because he wanted to show me what it was like to be a girl and some other BS. So this went on for hours until eventually his mother came to visit so I could get a break. So the next day I tell my school counselor and ofc they call my mom and tell her what happened… And she was NOT happy with me. She was in complete and utter disbelief, she ended up calling Jack and asked him what happened and within ten minutes he had told two completely different stories of what had happened that night. But ofc she belived him. Once we were at the hospital she kept repeating how I was lying and making this all up, she told the nurses the bruises had been there previously and weren’t new when I knew that was a lie. At the end of the visit after the r@pe kit and extensive meds the social worker came in and told her she had to separate me and jack. And she told the social worker she wouldn’t leave her bf and that she had to find a place to put me. Three days later she signed over custody to the state.
I can’t say I’m surprised but damn did that hurt like a bitch. I had put my life on the side lines so that I could make her happy and take care of her. I was always by her side being her shoulder to cry on, the person she could count on, her babysitter, the person that always reminded her how amazing she was, and so much more. I was always right there rooting her on but the minute she had to choose between her child and her bf (of a year might I add) she picked him. And I must admit it still hurts a lot but I’m slowly but surely making a family of my own.
And kim if you’re reading this I hope you know I may hate you and wish that you had picked me over him but if me not being in your life makes you happier than me in it i shall stay out of your way. Because in the end all I wanted was to see you truly happy.