I know this isn’t a sex related question at all, but I think it’s related to the community since, well, it’s masturbation.

In the first place, how does it feel to actually be excited? And how does it feel to stimulate your clitoris? It’s true that is by far better than fingering, or can it depend?

This last this isn’t necessary to answer, but how often do you masturbate and do you usually watch porn?

Edit: Unecessary comment deleted

  • squirmy_wormy@lemmy.worldEnglish
    101·
    10 months ago

    I don’t think there is a way for you or anyone to ever understand truly what it feels like to be another person. Especially with something as complicated as a sex organ.

    Even the most eloquent people couldn’t explain what you’re asking, and I think it’s ok to just never be able to understand part of the human experience.

    For the record, I’m a dude, and your explanation of having a penis is about the silliest thing I’ve ever seen. If you can’t explain yourself to another who has a good idea of what it’s like, how can you ever dream to understand something completely foreign?

    • CatUser@discuss.tchncs.deOPEnglish
      4·
      10 months ago

      That’s fair, thanks, and to be honest I can be much more explicit but my native language isn’t english and specifically with Lemmy I’m practicing my english writing skills, and yeah, I can used a translator but I used to do that and I’m not feel right with that.

      I did not mean an absolute explanation of how it feels, and actually, now that you mention it, that part of my post is partially irrelevant.

  • newcar1656@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    71·
    10 months ago

    It’s basically the same basic physical reaction whatever crotch setup you were born with.

    Estrogen lowers sex drive a bit usually, but makes orgasms last a bit longer, and changes how they feel a bit more intense, arousal takes longer but that comes with more intensity. The nerves are a bit closer together on the clit, than on a dick, but clits and dicks are very similar.

    Arousal is probably feels the same, but I suppose the physical sensations are feeling your clit getting hard, sometimes I find that I can feel my labia sliding rather than being pressed together (which you sort of don’t notice 99% of the time when you aren’t turned on).

    I usually start off by rubbing my clit, then need something inside me, I guess I get off once every couple of weeks or sometimes more often. I know other girls that prefer other things though.

    I don’t usually watch videos but I do enjoy hentai or stories.

      • newcar1656@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        3·
        10 months ago

        I mean, it’s not like a dick where it’s all sticking out and stuff, like… idk a button that is squishy and then like… idk swolen?

        • CatUser@discuss.tchncs.deOPEnglish
          2·
          10 months ago

          Yeah, but the dick (IIRC) is because of the blood preasure, idk what can happen to make the clit hard.

          Edit: nvm, a quick google search opened my eyes, basically it’s the same to the clit than to the dick.

  • WahotsEnglish
    76·
    10 months ago

    I have some trans friends, and they are pretty stoked about it. I’m assuming it’s pretty good!

      • newcar1656@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        75·
        10 months ago

        lol, this is just wrong. Yes, when I got my vaginoplasty, the doctor made a clit. Trans dudes don’t “get” a prostate, but it’s not like anal isn’t fun for them…

      • WahotsEnglish
        42·
        10 months ago

        I dunno where you are getting your vaginas from, but my friends definitely have clits, lol. They look just like every other woman down there. Though even if they didn’t, would still be fine by me. 🏳️‍🌈