I wish men had more clothing options like women. I enjoy clothes, and clothes shopping.
That being said, my sexy times clothes mainly consist of various colors and cuts of underwear. That’s not enough for me. I’m looking for more ideas.
What do you find hot/sexy/attractive on a man?
Doesn’t have to be directly sexual. It could just be certain styles or cuts of clothing, or even certain combinations. My wife, for example, loves it when I have my sleeves rolled up.
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Nothing beats a pair of well tailored suit pants, dress shirt (100% agree with your wife, sleeves rolled up) and a vest 🫠
Good. I have most of that. Just missing the vest.
Tight fitting is great for any gender. Love to see what it shows off. Loose/drapey can be fun too - seeing a sexy body peaking out underneath
That’s usually why I have the underwear, my butt is really cute in something tight.
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Fun how? Like patterns and such, or something more like toe socks or thigh highs?
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Search ali for “rainbow socks”, or if your legs are a bit wider, “socks striped plus size”. Unless you want to go for the manly man look, of course :)
A wizard hat
Just a wizard hat? That could be hot in the right context.
You need the robe too
Yeah, but I’ll do like a High Hefner silk robe.
I’ve started cross-dressing more and I find that it scratches that itch. Women’s athletic wear, specifically sports bras, really sends a message.
I’ve been mulling on that idea, but I’m not sure my face and build matches how women’s clothes are cut. I would need to experiment a bit.
I’m pretty sure I don’t look girly compared to the fine specimens at femboys@lemmynsfw.com. It’s the effort that counts. In my opinion a crossdresser doesn’t have to pass for the target gender, but I recommend shaving all of your body hair and wearing a bit of makeup. They also recommend squats and lunges to work on the ass.
I agree it’s the effort that counts, but I also think a person should wear something that compliments their shapes and features, and that’s where I’m unsure. Basically I’m not sure if my shapes fits the fit, as it were.
I already got the ass in check, though. Enough at least to make the ladies in my family jealous. 😆
I don’t generally like guys in women’s clothes but stretch pants/leggings do look just as good on men as women and I think more guys should wear them. So comfortable and so flattering to so many body types.
Stretch pants and leggings are comfortable as heck. I don’t wear them outside the house though. I look like I’m smuggling a tennis ball in my pants.
I have this one pair of shorts that were supposed to permanently stretch over time and look more normal (but form fitting) and I look very inappropriate in them.
My kid went to a soccer camp and one of the (very athletic) coaches wore running pants that were just guy stretch pants. I don’t know how he did it but he looked both manly and appropriate for working with kids, just looked athletic. Maybe there are some made just for guys?
But they are flattering on you. Just look more like under than overwear.
Like so:
Is this you? You’re in great shape! If you identify as a “daddy” you look the part, but the moustache is not to me tastes. If you were to shave it with your body hair, and wear a sports bra instead of a shirt, you could pass for a very butch fem guy, but I’m starting to see your point about crossdressing. Maybe just a crop top.
You can wear anything women wear as well. I (cis man) wear crop tops a lot and I feel so much more attractive with them
I’ve thought about crop tops, but I’m worried about finding the right size since I’m 6’.
There are plenty of 6’ women. Also, I guarantee there are places and sites that make “women’s” clothes for a larger, squarer body.
I love the white button up shirts, not dress shirts but canvas or linen, on guys. I don’t love the trying -to-be-sexy clothes on anyone, really.
Agree with your wife on rolled up sleeves, mmm.
Good notes on the type of button up. Thanks!
Nice shoes, like Goodyear welt fine boots or Oxfords. henley shirts, dress pants / slacks / rock climbing pants, loose suspenders, next level is get something tailored. Collarless button up, My wife likes Vneck sweaters on my. Some like sweater vests for that Carlton special
Sexy time is like leather harness, collar, c ring,
