Yesterday I was telling a transfem acquaintance about a bike camping trip I’m taking soon with a cis m buddy and she was mortified. She was convinced that he would assault me the first chance he got. “How will you pee without risking him attacking you?!” I explained that my buddy knows I’m a transguy and he’s good people, but she was convinced that this is a horrible idea and that I’m risking my life by taking this trip. It was strange.
Yesterday I was telling a transfem acquaintance about a bike camping trip I’m taking soon with a cis m buddy and she was mortified. She was convinced that he would assault me the first chance he got. “How will you pee without risking him attacking you?!” I explained that my buddy knows I’m a transguy and he’s good people, but she was convinced that this is a horrible idea and that I’m risking my life by taking this trip. It was strange.
That’s honestly sad she would think that, even after he was vouched for.