Personally I would prefer a tankie over a reddit-style neolib but I get your point. I’ll have to checkout the interface!

Odd thing is I’ve had more bad LW and ML interactions then those two.

That’s kind of how it is but the other way. I’ve noticed people just assume really quickly then write some rude reply and the clearly forming hive mind jumps in… not fun

That’s a good idea! Also gets people off your back when they’re rude.

Good point but typically blocking is two way not a one way mirror.

That’s a good choice. I’m rarely on beehaw, maybe I should change that.

That’s helped me a lot as well :) but I wish the block wasn’t one sided. It’s an odd choice that the other user can still see our content.

Good on you for using your real name. Just as some criticize wikipedia for anonymitity, I wonder if a forum with real names would cause people to be more respectful.

Your an admin here, can I ask which com is best for selfhosting?

Taking a break is a good idea but I came here from reddit because I enjoy selfhosting and believed in this alternative. I don’t know where else I’d go. I enjoy the forum style community.