Disconnect between me and others? As I said others like him too so there’s no disconnect there

What do you mean “a man like that”? I’m sure most men think it, he’s the only one that was honest about it

He was just being honest and he didn’t say it to hurt me he just told me how he was feeling

It was not on /b/

From what you’ve seen, do you think people are happier in certain parts of the world?

Even if they’re interested in the same things that doesn’t help me become friends with them if their outlook on everything else is completely different. They are also super racist. They think “English speakers” are like a different breed or something, and I know this because I understand both languages and they tend to talk crap after every interaction with an “English speaker” aka foreigner aka anyone that didn’t grow up here.

It’s even worse for me because I’m technically “from” the country but I can’t hide it because of my name. So everyone hates me even more than an “English speaker” because they view me as a traitor who left the country and I can’t even speak their language without an accent, the horror. If it weren’t for my name I would just pretend I only speak English and my life would be way easier this way.

Literally every single time I’ve spoken to someone that grew up here for more than 1 second (ordering a sandwich) one of the first things they talk about is how much they hate America and how much better everything here in this country is (hint: they have no idea what they’re missing cause they’ve never left the country). They also always comment on my accent and how much I “suck” at the language because I’ve literally never had to use it but am still able to speak it so sometimes it takes me a second or two to remember a word I never use. Then they tell me I will never be accepted into society or get a job here unless I take language lessons.

At this point I just want to leave this awful country where everyone treats me like garbage. The language isn’t worth perfecting or learning for me and I have zero desire to live here. The only jobs that pay any living wage are in IT, and I still wouldn’t want to have my colleagues be… the way that they are.

As for volunteering, the hospitals look like actual abandoned backalley nightmarefuel depictions. There nowhere else to volunteer cause we don’t have social services.

Tbh, I think I had to be banned to stop using it. So maybe it’s a good thing, and I can lie to myself and pretend the moderators really care about me and want me to be happy and that’s why they banned me ^.

Tbh his self esteem was quite low often, but it also fluctuated with periods of thinking he is godlike. I didn’t personally find it taxing to deal with his insecurities. I was just bewildered at how much he hated himself and thought he was unworthy of love while simultaneously running away from the one girl who loved him. Kind of funny. Ha ha.

I guess my point was, I’m assuming you live in the US if you think there’s a lot of good in people

Okay well that makes a lot more sense for someone that has to pay quarterly I guess. I guess this is a US thing. Luckily I never had to do my own taxes in Canada and looks like I’m never going to have to learn, but I’m interested in US accountingd

I don’t know who we is but I certainly don’t

I mean, he did occasionally say turd-like things but everyone has flaws. He also said he wishes I was prettier so he wouldn’t have doubts about marrying me lol.

He meant it in the context of telling me I treated him worse than his friends do, and he said that after we got into an argument once. His friends are more like acquaintances and he has never had to live with them.

Honestly I wish I could remember wtf actually happened (apart him constantly trying to leave when there was an issue instead of trying to solve it). That was a common pattern. Like if I would ever communicate to him anything that “bugged” me, he would just be like “do you want me to leave I feel like I’m just making you unhappy” and I would be like “no I do not want you to leave are you insane” but then he would keep mentioning leaving or booking a flight back and eventually I was just like… I think bro just wants to leave

We had to cohabitate temporarily, somewhat soon after first meeting in person, and I think the learning curve of me being his first gf plus that was just too much for him to handle

Either way it became exhausting after a while being the only person who wanted to make the relationship work

Thanks for the response. I could be totally wrong but I feel like the country where I’m currently living doesn’t have anything for me in it and I don’t think I will be happy here. On the other hand I don’t know how much better it will be elsewhere. I just feel like the people here are generally awful, especially in the city I live where all the jobs are. I can’t move cause of that, and also the pollution in other places is even worse, and if I go to some village it will only be old people there. So yeah life does seem quite limited.

My only solution is moving somewhere else but I’m worried it’ll just be a waste of time and money and unnecessary stress, maybe I should just accept my fate here, idk.

I thought he was no longer in charge of 4chan

I don’t get it, who are they getting ad revenue from? Thought it was just random people using their website to sell their stuff, why would they care about how “politically correct” the website is? They can just find literally anywhere else to advertise

I am not :/ I’m telling u guys this is definitely a recent thing. I don’t exactly know what their motives are but it’s kind of scary tbh

You’re not wrong but it doesn’t make it less devastating. I’ve been using it for years and not even gotten banned a single time. And now in the past few weeks this, and then I check the rules and it all makes sense. I always saw it as a fall back option when I wanted to talk to someone. It used to be reddit but I got banned for some complete bs, it used to be discord but they totally ruined it too… Then I thought I at least had 4chan but no longer

no the website is just bots /s

maybe, but the rules were never like this. I’ve tried searching the web about people being unfairly banned and I barely found anything. They’re definitely changing things.

It’s messed up to get banned for life without any warning, explanation or second chances. Literally how would anyone know the rules have changed unless they read them every day?

It’s gonna be hard for people to find out though, because most search results on Google are reddit ones, and people who go on 4chan are much more likely to be banned from reddit. So that’s why I wanted to post this here. I know I’m not the only one and I suspect alternative websites will only grow in the future.

How do you pay too many taxes? Aren’t you supposed to be able to know how much to pay?

Cause the name is hard to remember… I was trying to yesterday and the closest I could get is megatron and megalodon