Liam

I think it’s very easy for presentation preferences to be pretty fluid. Wanting to expand into a new range of styles can be just that. Weird as it might be to say… The fact that you’re worried that it could be internalized misogyny driving it is a pretty good tell that it probably isn’t. Or, if it is, you’ll likely feel that pretty hard as you explore.

Nothing is lost by exploring some new fashion, (assuming you have the budget to do so). Give yourself the space and time to feel what you feel about it when you try things out. If you find yourself thinking ‘everyone should wear this, it’s objectively better’, that’s when I’d be concerned. We live in a world that connects masculinity with power, and while it’s important to remember why that’s a problem on the large scale, if a masc cut jacket gives you a boost and makes you feel strong? There’s nothing wrong with harnessing that for yourself.

Good luck! I hope you have a good personal support team to help you along the way.

Sounds like you’re doing great! I majored in German in college, it’s such a fun language to learn. Others have already mentioned these points, but they’re definitely the next step for you, if you’re looking to expand your current practice. Language accusation has 4 major components. Reading comprehension and listening comprehension (passive) and writing and speaking (active). Having a practice buddy that can speak with you on a regular basis will move you forward in leaps and bounds. Same for actually immersing yourself in an environment where the language is spoken can also move you sooo far forward. But if you keep on as you are, you’ll definitely still learn a lot :)

Sooo much this!!! I’ve been really getting into vimwiki lately. A syntax on plaintext. If I decide I hate this format for my notes later, they’re still easily readable by whatever plaintext note organization tool I choose to use next. The markup might get a bit crunchy but it’s all still readable, and editable later!

Yeah, definitely the downside of that community. I’m definitely there for the personal ‘this was/is my journey’ egg memes, call outs about ‘egg like behavior’ aren’t ok.

If you’re looking for people on fedi… Idk about ‘big’, but there’s a ton of individuals out there. If you’re on masto, and ask a #helpWanted #pleaseBoost post along the lines of “Where’s my lgbtqia+ fam at?”, they’ll chime in.

I’m not sure if it’s within scope of beehaw, 'cause I know that the meme page here already asks for people not to upload images directly to save server space (which I totally respect) but I really lurked and enjoyed r/egg_IRL and r/traa and I’m definitely keeping my eye out for where the trans meme share lands.

Also a bi guy! Hi :)

Thanks for posting this both here and there, I definitely followed you to lemmy!