Haven’t started yet, but my state is red as hell so it’s up in the air what’ll actually be best for my health in the long term. Too much very causal transphobia around here right now, but I really do believe things are getting better.
There’s other factors too, but this is the one I keep coming back to. For now I’ve been getting away with presenting pretty darn NB as long as I don’t mention SHIT about pronouns or gender identity. The particular brand of “catholic manners” I’m surrounded by is at least good for keeping fuckers’ mouths shut as long as I’m super nonconfrontational and kill em with kindness.
Haven’t started yet, but my state is red as hell so it’s up in the air what’ll actually be best for my health in the long term. Too much very causal transphobia around here right now, but I really do believe things are getting better.
There’s other factors too, but this is the one I keep coming back to. For now I’ve been getting away with presenting pretty darn NB as long as I don’t mention SHIT about pronouns or gender identity. The particular brand of “catholic manners” I’m surrounded by is at least good for keeping fuckers’ mouths shut as long as I’m super nonconfrontational and kill em with kindness.
Love y’all, stay safe out there 💖