• Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    That’s how it works for the vast majority of people.

    Not like personality doesn’t play a role. But certain body part combinations are a requirement.

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        1 year ago

        Not really, it’s pretty key to the propagation of the species to find certain genitals and sexual traits attractive. Those that don’t notice them or care about them are outliers in humanity.

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            1 year ago

            Yes, and that’s not a bad thing. Anyone outside of the average in a trait is an outlier. Being 7 feet tall makes one an outlier, being a genius makes one an outlier, etc…

            Not sure why you’re so offended.

        • Lexi Sneptaur
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          I’m asexual so this is very alien to me. I generally associate genitals with violence because of past trauma