• @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    192 hours ago

    So it’s fake because 4chan. But also it’s fake because even if you’re late deafened you need to learn how to hear after getting cochlear implants.

    Also because it’s rare for adults fluent in sign language with a supportive network to choose CIs unless late deafened

  • @rbn@sopuli.xyz
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    1308 hours ago

    Who else was waiting for the plot twist? I thought she dumps him because his voice sounds like a drowning pig in panic or so… :'D

      • @rbn@sopuli.xyz
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        45 hours ago

        How do you suddenly gain that ability? Are there implants for smell as well? Or did they extract some lego bricks that she stuffed up her nose as a kid?

        • Match!!
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          45 hours ago

          might’ve recovered from long COVID

          • @rbn@sopuli.xyz
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            22 hours ago

            As she apparantly liked roses before and now does no longer, I read it as ‘she was born without the ability to smell’.

  • @sir_pronoun@lemmy.world
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    499 hours ago

    Maybe it was a bit much to ask that during such an emotional moment? I mean, let the woman decide when she has her wits together…

  • @Gnugit@aussie.zone
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    12711 hours ago

    If someone is deaf from birth and gains hearing from implants later in life, you whisper in their ear and they can’t see your lips they won’t understand because they have never heard the audio before. Is this correct?

    • edric
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      6810 hours ago

      Yeah. Unless she is only partially deaf or had hearing before and lost it, she won’t understand him.

    • AItoothbrush
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      108 hours ago

      In the beggining he said after a while she noticed or something like that so it means she had partial hearing loss.

      • @AccountMaker@slrpnk.net
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        12 hours ago

        I figured that she noticed him visually, a shadow was cast or she saw movement. Anon also said that she heard her mom “for the first time” when she got the implant.

        Taking all this into account, while the greentext seems to have avoided the first label of homosexuality, the verity of the story nevertheless has to be put into question.

  • AlexanderESmith
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    158 hours ago

    Hears her Mom for the first time… which means she’s never heard words before… how the fuck does she know what “I love you, please marry me” is supposed to mean? It’s just a jumble of new, incomprehensible sounds…

    Being able to read and write doesn’t mean you can understand spoken language, or speak.

    • @Maalus@lemmy.world
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      126 hours ago

      Deaf people know how to read lips to understand people who don’t know sign language. Also “hears for the first time” might be an embelishment in the story - lots of people are partially deaf and can hear something, just not enough to understand the words and they revert to lip reading.

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      My relative is deaf and can read lips really well.

  • don
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    -410 hours ago

    She scribbled her number on the note? What number was that?