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ANNOUNCEMENT: defederating effective immediately from lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works - Beehaw
beehaw.orghey folks, weāll be quick and to the point with this one: ##### we have made the
decision to defederate from lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works. we recognize this
is hugely inconvenient for a wide variety of reasons, but we think this is a
decision we need to take immediately. the remainder of the post details our
thoughts and decision-making on why this is necessary. ā we have been concerned
with how sustainable the explosion of new users on Lemmy isāparticularly with
federation in mindābasically since it began. i have already related
[https://beehaw.org/post/520044?scrollToComments=true] how difficult dealing
with the explosion has been just constrained to this instance for us four
Admins, and increasingly weāre being confronted with external vectors we have to
deal with that have further stressed our capabilities (elaborated on below). an
unfortunate reality weāve also found is we just donāt have the tools or the time
here to parse out all the good from all the bad. all we have is a nuke and some
pretty rudimentary mod powers that donāt scale well. we have a list of
improvements weād like to see both on the moderation side of Lemmy and
federation if at all possibleābut weāre unanimous in the belief that we canāt
wait on what we want to be developed here. separately, we want to do this now,
while the band-aid can be ripped off with substantially less pain. aside
from/complementary to whatās mentioned above, our reason for defederating, by
and large, boils down to: - these two instancesā open registration policy, which
is extremely problematic for us given how federation works and how trivial it
makes trolling, harassment, and other undesirable behavior; - the
disproportionate number of moderator actions we take against users of these two
instances, and the general amount of time we have to dedicate to bad actors on
those two instances; - our need to preserve not only a moderated community but a
vibe and general feeling this is actually a safe space for our users to
participate in; - and the reality that fulfilling our ethos is simply not
possible when we not only have to account for our own users but have to account
for literally tens of thousands of new, completely unvetted users, some of whom
explicitly see spaces like this as desirable to troll and disrupt and others of
whom simply donāt care about what our instance stands for as Gaywallet puts it,
in our discussion of whether to do this: > Thereās a lot of soft moderating that
happens, where people step in to diffuse tense situations. But itās not just
that, thereās a vibe that comes along with it. Most people need a lot of trust
and support to open up, and itās really hard to trust and support whoās around
you when there are bad actors. People shut themselves off in various ways when
thereās more hostility around them. Theyāll even shut themselves off when
thereās fake nice behavior around. Thereās a lot of nuance in modding a
community like this and itās not just where we take moderator actions- sometimes
people need to step in to diffuse, to negotiate, to help people grow. This only
works when everyone is on the same page about our ethos and right now we canāt
even assess that for people who arenāt from our instance, so weāre walking a
tightrope by trying to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. That isnāt
sustainable forever and especially not in the face of massive growth on such a
short timeframe. > > Explicitly safe spaces in real life typically arenāt open
to having strangers walk in off the street, even if they have a bouncer to throw
problematic people out. A single negative interaction might require a lot of
energy to undo. and, to reiterate: we understand that a lot of people
legitimately and fairly use these instances, and this is going to be painful
while itās in effect. but we hope you can understand why weāre doing this. our
words, when we talk about building something better here, are not idle
platitudes, and we are not out to build a space that grows at any cost. we want
a better space, and we think this is necessary to do that right now. if you
disagree we understand that, but we hope you can if nothing else come away with
the understanding it was an informed decision. this is also not a permanent
judgement. in the future as tools develop, cultures settle, attitudes and
interest change, and the wave of newcomers settles down, weāll reassess whether
we feel capable of refederating with these communities. thanks for using our
site folks.
Interesting bit of news for the threadiverse. All three of these are fairly large lemmy instances
Good riddance. I like the no-downvote style but overzealous mods just create their own pillow fort of the same 5 users regurgitating the same shit over and over.
Perhaps harsh but beehaw strikes me as the tumblr/progressive/sjw types that really wanna build their safe space. Which makes me wonder why theyāre federating at all lol.
Iām very glad that kbin seems to have a āletās get all the content and speak freelyā sorta vibe going on right now. hopefully things stay that way.
I got the same sense. Authoritarianism runs on both sides of the political spectrum.
While their FAQ touted an emphasis on empathy, the heavy flowery language while also making a point to refuse to have written rules at all somehow gave me a feeling of double-speak. The idea is nice, but now youāre open to being banned because they felt like it, and you canāt even explain how you werenāt breaking the rules if no rules exist. Refusing to allow anyone but themselves to create communities backs up the authoritarian streak. Not interested. I assume if they donāt, Iāll eventually be banned there anyway. I really like debate and I really dislike dictatorships.
At least if one of the largest instances out there goes full Korea, it will leave other instances a chance to be noticed in their wake. It sounds salty, but Iām still getting used to what federation means for a platform and when we were still initially federating my entire feed was utterly nothing but beehaw. I am salty. I want as much variety as I can get.
Yup. Taking a look at their ethos/manifesto stuff it instantly became clear to me what sort of place beehaw is, and itās not one Iām super fond of, so I doubt Iāll ever make an account there.
Yeah beehaw is pretty big at least from my perspective. I see three big communities: lemmy, kbin, and beehaw. and beehaw is easily the odd one out with their weird manifesto stuff lol. Which is why when they said they were defederating from lemmy, it kinda struck me as āoh kbin is next thenā lol. but each of the three kinda have a different vibe to me, so maybe kbin is tolerable to beehaw while lemmy isnāt?
I havenāt had much experience with lemmy at all, in order to guess, and Iāve seen conflicting things about them. Lemmy was already bigger and it feels like it got a lot more publicity than kbin, so they bore the brunt of the exodus. Itās possible they didnāt get as lucky as we did in who that constituted. The devsā weird CCP bent overshadowing some other instancesā reportedly great admins just makes it even more of a confusing mess culture-wise.
Iād like to think we can abide by such stringent
rulesimplications as ābe nice.ā But their stated reasoning is that thereās just too much content to ever hope to moderate by themselves, whichā¦they really should have seen coming on a platform whose intent is to federate, ngl. Doesnāt matter if your homebase is young. You need underlings for this once it gets beyond a couple hundred people.Which is why Iām leaning on the side of beehaw eventually deciding thereās no choice but to defed way more than this until and unless they can afford help. With four admin-mods alone against the mercy of the entire fediverse, their hopes of upholding the mission statement will eventually be laughable any other way.
Not that I think weāre nearly as bad as other places out there. I think weāve got a surprisingly great atmosphere going and I hope to god it stays. But those are their two options, and kbin users seem to have an admirably civil tendency both to shitpost and to question and hear out differing viewpoints in a way Iām not sure beehaw will appreciate.
Yup. I completely agree. I understand why beehaw defederated from lemmy because lemmy kinda seemsā¦ unhinged, in comparison to beehawās carefully crafted community.
Whereas kbin I think youāre right, tend to be happy to civilly hear each other out. whereas I feel like beehaw isnāt really interested in that. Though I think of kbin users respect beehawās way of doing things while weāre in their space, they might not have issues with us.
granted, the response I got was āwe donāt even think about youā so maybe kbin is too small to really be noticeable to them lol.
Unhinged. Youāve found the perfect word for it. They come off to me like what happens in study hall when the instructor has to leave.
Goodness, my pride, lmao. I think Iām quite content not to be such a giant enough instance I get thought of. Hundreds of comfier, smaller places over Reddit Deux any day. I agree, the people here seem on the whole cognizant enough to keep themselves in check, rather thanā¦whatever reddit was. That would be one behavior I am thrilled to see die, and hopefully federating with more chaotic instances wonāt kick it up again. Iām concerned it may.
haha youāve summed up my thoughts exactly. itās a little interesting seeing lemmy get the wilder side of reddit and kbin getting the more reserved side. whereas both are āsimilarā enough that I think weāre fine with each other.
Beehaw hasnāt really defederated from Lemmy. They still allow the biggest Lemmy instance and a lot of smaller Lemmy instances. What they have done is block 2 of the top 4 (hard to count since the user count tools are having issues here on the lemmy side)ā¦
I first had worries about Lemmy and thought about kbin first, but seems the reddit migration has managed to make the issues minor in my case. Thereās less issues. So, Iām surprised Beehaw had that amount of trolling.
They literally said they want that instance to be their safe-space, so you are absolutely correct.
Still itās surprising how quickly a block-happy instance appeared, I was expecting it but not only days into this reddit-wave.
Iām still figuring out proper tone haha. but yes.
ahh, itās 2010 again!
Does kbin have good mod tools?
Iām fairly new to kbin but we do have mod tools here, and people have used them to moderate their community. So far I havenāt seen any issues with spam or what Iād say is trolling (though beehaw may think different). As for whether the mod tools are āgoodā I guess is oneās opinion. I find theyāre enough to moderate the small communities I started here on kbin, though I have to imagine much larger (100k-1m) communities might struggle with the tools available. kbin is very new and still under development. so weāll see.
Yeah. I would also imagine that a place like Beehaw is going to attract bad actors and trolls who want to wreck the place at the expense of Beehaw users, who specifically joined in order to have a community of nice people to hang out with.
the vibe here on kbin is I think very similar to what you might find on more serious subreddits or on something like hacker news. weāre interested in content, discussion, etc. but thereās not really overt trolling. I rarely see āshitpostingā and other stuff as well. If you think ānerds who wanna talk about stuff and share news/contentā youāve got the right gist. I donāt really think anyone Iāve seen here would go out of there way to cause problems. but kbin does have open signups (not invite).
idk what the mindset is for lemmy, beehaw, and the rest of the fediverse, but I think due to the long downtime for federation here on kbin thereās this vibe of āwe have kbin stuff, and then we have stuff from those other guysā Itās to the point where someone quickly made a script to be able to easily see where someone is posting from.
In that regard, itās always very obvious to me when Iām among beehaw users and in beehaw communities. same for when Iām in lemmy spaces, or kbin spaces. whereas I think lemmy users may not know or care about that distinction. Though this might just be my own musing and others arenāt thinking like that haha.
Really? The tone in Beehaw is obvious yeah, but I thought the tone for kbin and lemmy was slightly similar ā unless things really changed in the few days when federation was down (which is possible)
I wasnāt here before kbinās federation went down, but rather joined during that time with most everyone else. I do think the tone and āfeelā between kbin and lemmy is similar for sure, and I think a lot of that is probably due to mutual ex-reddit culture. but while federation was down there was a lot of kbin users saying things like āitās a bit better like this because we build up a kbin culture, and understand things betterā and āwe can build up kbin communities so weāre less reliant on other instancesā.
I think lemmy just ended up with the āeverything redditā culture, while kbin ended up with a more reserved technical reddit culture. Though that might just be my perspective (and not shared with others). But I can understand why beehaw defederated with lemmy and not kbin. even though it kinda feels like weāre next lol.
I feel like KBin is one of those āwe only show our magazines by default, but if youāre an advanced user or you want to explore the fediverse a bit more, we have that option too, and you can even subscribe to federated communities/magazinesā type of sites in the fediverse.
Yeah, I do wonder if Beehaw is just block happy. I am scared of clicking on their list of banned instances (like if itās really shitty stuff that no sane human can look at), but they have blocked almost 400 instances.
They havenāt blocked the main Lemmy one though. Iām guessing the main Lemmy instance has gotten better with the reddit migration.
What they did was the following : they defederated with Top 2 and Top 4 from what I understand (2 of the top 5).
For, reference Lemmy.ml has 35k users, Lemmy.world around 20-25k ish, shitjustworks 10k, beehaw 10k. Then theres a lot of small lemmy instances beehaw hasnāt banned which go from a few hundred to a few thousand. The numbers might be slightly off since the user count tools are having issues on the lemmy side of things.
Oh? What makes beehaw users different and recognizable?
beehaw stands out among the lemmy instances because of the unique culture.
so idk how things work over on the lemmy instances and beehaw, but here when we get threads from other sites, the logo of the site is shown pretty blatantly. likewise the url is clearly visible. In beehawās case, just looking around there it seems pretty strictly moderated with a certain cultural/style emphasis. Maybe not obvious at first glance, but reading some of the ethos pages makes it clear.
Itās a veryā¦ ātumblrā vibe. So beehaw defederating from lemmy.world isnāt really a surprise.
Like to me the different instances have different āfeelsā to them. and on kbin theyāre clearly marked so itās obvious. itās further emphasized as i said by the fact that we were isolated for a while.
The advantage Beehaw has is the way the communities are organized - so much neater than in other instances. Every community on there is a giant hub, making these communities more visible and active than what we see on lemmy.ml and lemmy.world, and to some extent kbin.
Not to the degree what Iām used to. Itās very minimal. Itāll probably take a year or two before itās fully there, is my expectation.
Itās not an easy thing to make and it doesnāt have the highest priority generally. Reddit didnāt even have automoderator for years.